Title song: Russian Roulette
Artist : Rihanna
take a breath,take a deal
calm yourself,he says to me
if you play,you play for keep
take the gun and count to three
you're sweating now
moving slow,no time to think
my turn to go
and you can see my heart beating
you can see it through my chest
i'm terrified,but i'm not leaving
i know that i must pass this test
so just pull the trigger
say a prayer to yourself
he says close your eyes
sometimes it helps
then i get a scary thought
that he's here,means he's never lost
so just pull a trigger
as my life flashes before my eyes
i wondering if i will ever see another sunrise
so many people won't get chance to say goodbye
but it's too late to think of the value of my life..!!
selamat tinggal semua..x lama lg sy akan pergi utk latihan ketenteraan (military training)..sememangnya agak lama tempoh berada dlm kem tentera tue..dijangkakan pada 2015 nnti barulah sy akn bebas..umpama burung merpati yg bebas dari sangkarnya..hahaha..berat hati nk tnggalkn family & orang2 yg pernah mnyokong cita2 sy nie..bila tgk mak sy menangis terharu,lg la sy bertambah pilu..huhu..sy akn mnjalani latihan tunas wira (latihan yg ckup teruk & kaw2 pnyer kena lanyak ngn senior2..adeishh)..xperla..wlaupn sy ni perempuan,sy akn buktikn kt semua org terutamanya family n mak sy yg sy mmpu tempuhi latihan ketenteraan tersebut..sy pn da janji ngn mak yg sy xkn sesekali tarik diri wlaupn sy tahu yg sy akn teruk kna lanyak n seksa ngn senior2 yg...*no comment*..demi cita2 & amant terakhir arwah ayh sy,sy snggup dan akn pastikn spnjng latihan tersebut dijalankn,sy akn mnjadi seorg yg berhati kering..hehe..mama,kakak jnji ngn mama yg kakak akn pstikn bler mama jmpe kakak lg beberapa bln kemudian,mama akn nmpk kakak pkai uniform tentera..kakak jnji,mama!!..insyaallah..kpd sesiapa yg mmbaca blog sy nie,diharap dpt memaafkn sgala kesilapan sy skiranya sy ade berbuat salah ngn korang..doakn sy selamat n steady kt sane ok..hurm enth bler la dpt tulis blog nie lg..hrp aderla mase nk update blog nie pasni..insyaallah..huhu..urm ok,now it's time for me to go..sblum sy akhiri kata2 sy nie,sy menyusun spuluh jari sy memohn restu & kemaafan kpd sesiapa yg mngenali sy..doakn sy sukses dan berjaya ok..thanks everyone..nnti pepehal sy akn citer kn plak pngalaman sy nnti swaktu latihan ketenteraan yg erghhhh*no comment* ..ok,bye !!..
mencari kebenaran dalam kehidupan yang sementara..mengeksplorasi jiwa manusia tanpa batasan..mencari kedamaian disebalik kekalutan..
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Dating....love,love love....
The purpose of dating is to get to know one another,enjoy time together and develop a friendship.most teens are looking for someone who likes them for who they're,someone with whom they can share thoughts and feelings.dating should never mean that a person 'owes' another person sexual favor because they went out,spent money and had a good time.spending money and having a good time on a date DOES NOT require a sexual payback!!
You should know when the date will begin and end.knowing your time frame will help you to plan better.if u wanna have a date,i suggest you to have a group date..do you know why?this is because group dating allows you to get to know the other person casually and with other friends.plus,dating in a group keeps you accountable.am i right?hehe...futhermore,you should know that dates don't have to cost a fortune.with planning,they can be reasonable and fun.moreover,dates should always be NON-ALCOHOLIC and DRUG FREE whether alone or in a group.you should know that alcohol and drugs impair judgement and put you MORE risk for PREMARITAL SEX!
always remember that!
You should know when the date will begin and end.knowing your time frame will help you to plan better.if u wanna have a date,i suggest you to have a group date..do you know why?this is because group dating allows you to get to know the other person casually and with other friends.plus,dating in a group keeps you accountable.am i right?hehe...futhermore,you should know that dates don't have to cost a fortune.with planning,they can be reasonable and fun.moreover,dates should always be NON-ALCOHOLIC and DRUG FREE whether alone or in a group.you should know that alcohol and drugs impair judgement and put you MORE risk for PREMARITAL SEX!
always remember that!
Kenapa Kita Rasa Stres??
kenapa kita stres?pernahkah kita bertanya kpd diri kita sndri..knp kita mudah stres??
mungkin ada org tertanya2,apa itu stres sebenarnya?bagaimana stres boleh 'menyerang' kehidupan seharian kita??stres ialah tindak balas fizikal ,emosi dan mental terhadap sebarang perubahan atau tuntutan yg melebihi had atau kapasiti kemampuan seseorg.stres ini xpernah mngenal usia dan siapa mangsanya..pernahkah anda melihat tetiba seorg knak2 kelihatan spt sdang marah lalu cuba utk melepaskn kemarahannya sama ada mmbaling sesuatu ke dinding atau lain2??itu tndanya knak2 itu sdang stres...apakah punca seseorg itu boleh stres?punca2nya ialah:
-tekanan kerja,bekerja dlm waktu yg pnjang atau beban kerja
-sentiasa tergesa2 atau mngejar masa
-persekitaran yg tidak selesa
-kesesakan lalu lintas
masalah keluarga
bentuk badan(jiwa mudah tertekan sekiranya tidak memiliki tbentuk tubuh yg diingini 0
isu kewangan(selalu kekurangan wang atau byk hutang)
Bila kita akn berasa stres:
-dalam bhya
-cuba melakukan byk perkara dlm 1 masa
-pengurusan masa yg teruk
-melengah2kn urusan yg tidak mnyenangkan
-melakukan semua perkara seorg diri
-tidak sanggup berkata TIDAK
-mmbuat sesuatu keputusan scara tergesa2
mungkin ada org tertanya2,apa itu stres sebenarnya?bagaimana stres boleh 'menyerang' kehidupan seharian kita??stres ialah tindak balas fizikal ,emosi dan mental terhadap sebarang perubahan atau tuntutan yg melebihi had atau kapasiti kemampuan seseorg.stres ini xpernah mngenal usia dan siapa mangsanya..pernahkah anda melihat tetiba seorg knak2 kelihatan spt sdang marah lalu cuba utk melepaskn kemarahannya sama ada mmbaling sesuatu ke dinding atau lain2??itu tndanya knak2 itu sdang stres...apakah punca seseorg itu boleh stres?punca2nya ialah:
-tekanan kerja,bekerja dlm waktu yg pnjang atau beban kerja
-sentiasa tergesa2 atau mngejar masa
-persekitaran yg tidak selesa
-kesesakan lalu lintas
masalah keluarga
bentuk badan(jiwa mudah tertekan sekiranya tidak memiliki tbentuk tubuh yg diingini 0
isu kewangan(selalu kekurangan wang atau byk hutang)
Bila kita akn berasa stres:
-dalam bhya
-cuba melakukan byk perkara dlm 1 masa
-pengurusan masa yg teruk
-melengah2kn urusan yg tidak mnyenangkan
-melakukan semua perkara seorg diri
-tidak sanggup berkata TIDAK
-mmbuat sesuatu keputusan scara tergesa2
Everything Happens For A Good Reason...Remember that !
this is specially dedicated to those who are special ones in my life..
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there..to serve some sort of purpose,teach you a lesson or help to figure out who you are or who you want to become.you never know who the people may be but you lock eyes with them,you know that every moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.you should know that sometimes when things happen to you at the time may seem horrible,painful and unfair,but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential ,strength, willpower or heart.actually,everything happens for a reason.nothing happens by chance or by means of luck.illness,love,lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.without these small tests,life definately would be like a smoothly paved,straight,flat road to nowhere safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet affect you life.the successes and downfalls that you experience can create whom you are,and the bad experiences can be learned from.in fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones.if someone hurts you,betrays you or breaks your heart,forgive them because they already helped you to learn bout' trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you believe in and open your heart.if someone loves you,love them back unconditionally.it's not only because they love you but also because they're teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.make every day count.appreciate everything that you possibly can,for you may never experience it again.the conclusion is,tell yourself that you're great individual and believe in yourself.i'm telling this because if you don't believe in yourself,who wants to believe in you?no one else! just go on with your life and be happy with it.
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there..to serve some sort of purpose,teach you a lesson or help to figure out who you are or who you want to become.you never know who the people may be but you lock eyes with them,you know that every moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.you should know that sometimes when things happen to you at the time may seem horrible,painful and unfair,but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential ,strength, willpower or heart.actually,everything happens for a reason.nothing happens by chance or by means of luck.illness,love,lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.without these small tests,life definately would be like a smoothly paved,straight,flat road to nowhere safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet affect you life.the successes and downfalls that you experience can create whom you are,and the bad experiences can be learned from.in fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones.if someone hurts you,betrays you or breaks your heart,forgive them because they already helped you to learn bout' trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you believe in and open your heart.if someone loves you,love them back unconditionally.it's not only because they love you but also because they're teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.make every day count.appreciate everything that you possibly can,for you may never experience it again.the conclusion is,tell yourself that you're great individual and believe in yourself.i'm telling this because if you don't believe in yourself,who wants to believe in you?no one else! just go on with your life and be happy with it.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
Love,Lust Or Infatuation..
it's easy to confuse love and infatuation.infatuation may seem like love,and it's often intense,but there are several important differences.Understanding the differences between love,lust and infatuation can save you a lot of pain in relationships and help you to know when it REALLY is LOVE.firstly,do you know what's the meaning of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE?unconditional love is devotion based on commitment and unselfish concern for one another.It's freely accepts another quality in loyalty and seeks his or her good.In the other way,love is PATIENT.
how bout' lust?do u know what is lust?hehe..lust is an intense sexual desire or appetite,an overwhelming desire,as in lust for power.Lust is a sexual urge or physical impulse.Some people might be confused between love & infatuation.some of us when they fall in love with someone,they turn "blind"..is it true?hehe..alright,let me explain bout the real meaning of INFATUATION..infatuation is an unrealistic or extravagant love or admiration appealing to the senses & impulses,sometimes called LUST.Infatuation may be the initial attraction that will,with time & commitment,grow into a mature and unconditional love.
"LOVE WAITS,LUST WANTS.LOVE CAN'T WAIT TO GIVE WHAT IS TRUE AND HONORABLE.LUST CAN'T WAIT TO TAKE.LOVE MENDS.LUST HURTS.LOVE IS SECURE.LUST IS SELFISH.LUST ENDS BUT LOVE LASTS.
LOVE,LOVE, & LOVE..why u keep on following me??huhh??
how bout' lust?do u know what is lust?hehe..lust is an intense sexual desire or appetite,an overwhelming desire,as in lust for power.Lust is a sexual urge or physical impulse.Some people might be confused between love & infatuation.some of us when they fall in love with someone,they turn "blind"..is it true?hehe..alright,let me explain bout the real meaning of INFATUATION..infatuation is an unrealistic or extravagant love or admiration appealing to the senses & impulses,sometimes called LUST.Infatuation may be the initial attraction that will,with time & commitment,grow into a mature and unconditional love.
"LOVE WAITS,LUST WANTS.LOVE CAN'T WAIT TO GIVE WHAT IS TRUE AND HONORABLE.LUST CAN'T WAIT TO TAKE.LOVE MENDS.LUST HURTS.LOVE IS SECURE.LUST IS SELFISH.LUST ENDS BUT LOVE LASTS.
LOVE,LOVE, & LOVE..why u keep on following me??huhh??
Pemilihan Peringkat Akhir Pegawai Kadet & Pelajar Awam Universiti Pertahanan Nasional Malaysia(UPNM) di Kem Terendak,Melaka
hehe..seperti yg sy ckp,sy akn citer kt korang tentang pengalaman sy sewaktu berada di kem terendak,melaka..alhamdulillah,sy bersyukur kerana sudah smpai ke peringkat akhir bagi pemilihan pegawai kadet UPNM nie..sememangnya trlalu byk ujian & cabaran yg terpksa ditempuhi.akhirnya,berjaya jugak sy smpai ke tahap ini..syukur alhamdulillah..hehe...seperti yg sy bagitau,mmg x rmai pn calon dari Pangkalan Udara Subang Fasa 1 yg terpilih utk ke final board..sehinggakn bilangan calon yg terpilih boleh dikira dgn jari..mmg ciput jea..tp biler da bercampur dgn calon2 dari seluruh malaysia yakni dari pusat pemilihan yg berlainan,maka suasana ketika itu mnjadi hiruk pikuk...sebelum tue,sy n family mmg jarang2 dtg ke melaka so bler nk mncari kem terendak nie,alamatnya berpusing2 la dlu satu melaka tue..hehe..nasib baik la jmpa gak akhirnya..itu pun bler mak sy bertanya arah jalan drpd sorg pak cik nie utk ke sana ...aduishh...so bila kitorg smpai,sume calon2 kenalah melapor dulu kt perkarangan Masjid Al-Syuhada kt kem terendak tue..so bler kitorg da melapor,kitorg terus dihantar ke sebuah dewan dgn menaiki bas UPNM..huhu..*bangga2*..hehe..dgr khbar,daripada 15000 org yg memohon,hnya 828 calon shj yg terpilih utk ke final board & hnya 500 org yg akn dipilih mndi pegwai kadet manakala,150org shj yg akn dipilih mnjd pljar awam UPNM..
keesokkan harinya,kitorg dihantar utk ke persidangan Lembaga Awal..memandangkan course yg sy ambil ialah Sains & Teknologi Pertahanan n kebetuln pula x rmai yg ambil course nie,so kami la yg kena ditemuduga dahulu..huhu..*mood:nervous*..hehe..so kitorg nie di temuduga bkn scara individu yer,tetapi scra berkumpulan..1 kumpuln aderla dlm 14 org calon..tp mngikut jntina la..wlaupn bilangan kami sedikit tp entah la,bayangkan la sesi temuduga kitorg berakhir pd jam 2.30 pg...sy ulang,2.30pg!...kitorg pnyer sesi interview start kul 8.30 mlm n bygkn jela,kitorg abis kul 2.30pg!..group sy lak yg 2nd last plak tue..mmg leh berjanggut tnggu lama2 nie..kehkehkeh..so klau course yg kitorg ambik pn bleh interview nyer berakhir kul 2.30pg ,bygkn jela klau utk course2 lain yg mmpunyai calon yg rmai..huhu..urm sbnrnya kitorg x der buat aper sgt kt sana,masa kitorg byk dihabiskn dgn melepak dlm blik..huhu..nk citer byk2 pn,sbnrnya xde aper sgt yg leh dikongsikn disini..scara peribadinya,citer nie mmg pnjang lg tp biarla sy akhiri bebelan sy stakat disini jea..hehe..tp overall nyer,mmg enjoy la...:p
keesokkan harinya,kitorg dihantar utk ke persidangan Lembaga Awal..memandangkan course yg sy ambil ialah Sains & Teknologi Pertahanan n kebetuln pula x rmai yg ambil course nie,so kami la yg kena ditemuduga dahulu..huhu..*mood:nervous*..hehe..so kitorg nie di temuduga bkn scara individu yer,tetapi scra berkumpulan..1 kumpuln aderla dlm 14 org calon..tp mngikut jntina la..wlaupn bilangan kami sedikit tp entah la,bayangkan la sesi temuduga kitorg berakhir pd jam 2.30 pg...sy ulang,2.30pg!...kitorg pnyer sesi interview start kul 8.30 mlm n bygkn jela,kitorg abis kul 2.30pg!..group sy lak yg 2nd last plak tue..mmg leh berjanggut tnggu lama2 nie..kehkehkeh..so klau course yg kitorg ambik pn bleh interview nyer berakhir kul 2.30pg ,bygkn jela klau utk course2 lain yg mmpunyai calon yg rmai..huhu..urm sbnrnya kitorg x der buat aper sgt kt sana,masa kitorg byk dihabiskn dgn melepak dlm blik..huhu..nk citer byk2 pn,sbnrnya xde aper sgt yg leh dikongsikn disini..scara peribadinya,citer nie mmg pnjang lg tp biarla sy akhiri bebelan sy stakat disini jea..hehe..tp overall nyer,mmg enjoy la...:p
Pemilihan Pegawai Kadet Universiti Pertahanan Nasional Malaysia(UPNM) di Pangkalan Udara Subang Fasa 1
hai,kali nie nk citer skit psl pengalaman sy sewaktu mnghadiri pemilihan pegawai kadet UPNM kat PU Subang..tp ini baru jea utk 1st board..bkn final board ek..utk final board,sy akn citer kemudian..hehe...selama seminggu kt situ,mcm2 yg kitorg kna lalui..ada mcm2 peringkat yg kitorg terpkse lalui antaranya ialah semakan dokumen,pemeriksaan perubatn n pergigian,ujian jasmani(larian 3.2km bermasa),ujian profil kepimpinan,ujian kecerdasan akal(IQ),ujian pengetahuan am,ujian merancang & last skli,ujian syarahan(dalam bahasa malaysia & bahasa inggeris)..hehe..so korang ingt snang ke nk msuk UPNM?susah la klau xkuat smangat..huhu..urm ok,skrg sy nk citer psl pengalamn sewaktu kna buat medical check-up..ok mse nk kna amek darah,enth knp la agak malang skit nasib sy coz maybe org yg tlong amekkn darah tersalah plih urat kot mse nk inject sy so lpas da kna tue,xpasal2 tangan sy mmbengkak n mnjdi kebiru2an..korang bygkn jela betapa paniknyer sy mse tue...nasib baik pkai bju engan pnjang,so leh la cover skit dpn pgwai2 kt situ..klau diorg nmpk,xpsl2 ingt pnyakit aper lak nnti..kang kne singkir plak..ishh..tp yg paling menarik skli mse kna lalui ujian jasmani..ala yg kena lari 3.2km tu lar...korang ingat leh lenggang lenggok ke mse berlari tue..??jangan harap la!utk calon wanita,masa yg diberikn hnya 20 minit shj..bg lelaki lak,hnya 18 minit shj masa yg diberikn utk menamatkn larian sejauh 3.2km tue..fuhh,korang bygkn jela betapa tercungap2nye sy bler kna berlari sejauh tue dlm masa kurang 20 minit..klau xbermasa orait la gak...huhu..nasib baik lepas tau..huhu...utk ujian kcerdasan akal n pngetahuan am tue,korang pepaham sndri jela aper soaln yg diorg tnyer..sumenye byk berkaitan dgn ketenteraan n sejarah dunia...so klau korang nie nk msuk UPNM,pepndai la selak2 skit bku sejarah korang tue so xderla teruk sgt result korang nnti...ingat,sume nie ade markah yg tersendiri bg melayakkn korang utk ke final board nnti..klau merit korang low,cmnerla nk msuk UPNM..nk smpai ke final board pn blum tntu lepas la...tp nie sume ikut nasib n rezeki msing2 jela..sy xleh nk ckp byk2..hehe..ok,bab ujian merancang nie lar yg sy paling suke skli..hehe..nk tau knp?hehe...sbb mse ni lar kitorg diuji dgn latihan ala2 perang gitu...kitorg dibhgikn dlm group la..lelaki n pompuan same jea dlm 1 group...so bler group kitorg dipnggil,korang pepaham jela nasib yg kitorg terpkse harungi..mmg agak payah la..dah la terpkse berpanas..pastu nk kna bwk barang2 berat lak tue..tp slalunya mcm sy nie,pass jea keje2 cmtu kt lelaki..hehe..byngkn jela,habis jea drpd tue,bju kitorg mmg kotor gler2..tgn n siku nie luka2 n bju pn ader yg terkoyak..huhu..mmg interesting..muahahaha..klau utk ujian syarahan tue lak,kitorg kena mmberi syarahn dlm kedua2 bhsa(wajib) n setiap syarahn mngikut bhsa diberi masa hnya 3 minit shj..ala,sekejap jea...xder aper sgt la...xyah la nk tkut sgt mse nk bg syarahan tue..relax2 suda...hehe..so,nie jela pngalaman yg sempat sy kongsikn kt sini..utk pengalamn sy sewaktu di final board,sy akn citerkn kemudian ok...hehe..so sesape yg berminat nk jd tentera n bljar di UPNM,korang kuatkn la smangat korang tue..ujian2 yg diberikn nmpk jea mcm susah tp bler kita cuba utk mngharunginya,insyaallah tiada aper yg perlu ditakutkn..tiada aper yg mustahil dlm dnia nie yg kita xleh lakukn..yg penting ialah USAHA...tnpa usaha,kita xkn berjaya..bler da berUSAHA,kenalah TAWAKAL lak..hehe..tp mmg best la pngalamn yg sy dpt nie..mmg best sgt3..kwn2 bru pn dpt gak..bkn setakat kwn jea,even boyfriend pn dpt gak..hehehe..*blushes*..hehe..tp mmg sdih la bler tgk rmai kwn2 yg tersingkir awal..lg sdih bler tgk ader yg snggup tarik dri pasal xtahan pnyer psl..yg rmai tarik diri adalah lelaki..sy ulang,LELAKI!..hahaha.adoyai,pening2..yg pompuan pn rmai gak yg tarik diri sbnrnya..so bler da dpt ke final board,berape kerat jea sgt calon2 yg terpilih..n sy la salah sorg calon yg terplih tue..mmg sikit sgt la calon2 yg terpilih ke final board..alhamdulillah,syukur kerana Allah swt makbulkn doa sy...bler dikenang2kn smula,rasa mcm xpercya lak sume perkara yg berlaku kt sy..hehe..tp nk buat cmner,kna la percye gak..hehe...wwooott..:p
selama-lamanya cintaku...oh nak jadi askar...hehe
sebenarnya,rmai orang rasa pelik..kenapa sy nak jd askar?soalan yg bertubi2 menerjah ke atas diri sy sjak rmai orang tahu cita2 sy ialah utk mnjadi pegawai tentera...diorg slalu tanye,leh tahan ke nk kna berpanas n kena 'seksa' bler da jadi askar nnti?kulit putih nnti jd hitam lak...hahaha....kelakar la diorg nie..hehe..tp smpai skrg byk persoalan dlm minda sy yg msih xterjawab2 smpai skrg nie...pelik sgt ke cita2 sy nie?teruk ke klau sy kata nk jd askar?pening2..mmg la cita2 sy ni pelik skit..ok,mngkin korang nk tau skit psl sy nie kn..sy ni suke sgt2 aktiviti lasak...n msti korang nk tau kn knp sy nk sgt jd askar nie..knp xjd pramugari ke,setiausaha ke,jd model ke..kehkehkeh...urm ok firstly,mmg da cita2 sy sjak kcik lg mmg nk jd askar..klau org tnye sy nk jd ape bler besar nnti,confirm sy ckp sy nk jd askar..hehe...tp yg paling mmbuatkn sy jd lebih bersemangat n berkeras utk jd askar ialah,ini merupakn salah 1 amanat terakhir arwah ayh sy..arwah ayh sy bekas askar dlu...dlu pernah berkhidmat dalam Kor Risik..arwah ayh sy mmg nk sgt sy ikut jejak langkahnya n jd seorg pegwai tntera...bler dok terkenangkn permintaan arwah ayh sy tue,nie mnjdikn sy lebih kuat n tabah dlm mngharungi pelbagai cabaran utk mncapai cita2 mnjdi seorg askar..lgpn,mnjadi seorg pegawai tntera seolah2 mnjadi satu igauan n kebanggaan bg sy..xsabar rasanya utk bergelar sbg seorg pgwai tntera suatu hari nnti..insyaallah..terus terang sy katakn disini,hati sy mmg nk jd tntera n bljar di UPNM a.k.a Universiti Pertahanan Nasional Malaysia..skrg nie peluang sy da terbuka luas so sy xkn sesekali mensia2kn peluang yg muncul dpn mata nie..mmg sy mngaku.sbnarnya UPNM la universiti yg paling ssh utk org masuk...nk tau knp?korang ingt snang2 ke korang dpt bljar kt situ klau korang x fit?mcm2 latihan n ujian terpkse ditempuhi sblum lyak dpt bljar kt UPNM tau...tp bler da msuk UPNM,istilah tue akn bertukar mnjadi Universiti Penat Nak Mampus..*gurau2*..hehehe...gelaran nie mmg da popular sgt dlm kalangan student kt situ..so korang phm2 jela ek..tp sy akn sntiasa anggp itu sume cabaran yg ckup bgus utk sy mnghadapi kehidupn dgn lebih tabah...wlau ape care sklipn,sy da pasang tekad utk jd pegawai tentera nnti..wlaupn sy sbnrnya byk dpt twaran bljr yg lebih bgus,tp hati sy ttap hnya utk UPNM....
UPNM oh UPNM....hehe
UPNM oh UPNM....hehe
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Pedulikan tentang apa yang mereka katakan berkaitan status IBU TUNGGAL!!!
sebelum saya mulakn isu ini,saya ingin bertanya kepada anda,apa yang anda fikirkn tntang seorg yg bergelar ibu tunggal?adakah anda tahu apakah perbezaan antara JANDA dengan BALU??mungkin klau sesiapa yang tidak tahu,tntu mereka mngatakan bhwa kedua2nya mmbwa mksud yg sama..kononnya klau secara formalnya pnggilan utk golongan spt ini ialah ibu tunggal....ANDA SILAP!sebelum sy meneruskn kata2 sy nie,sy nk terangkan dhulu perbezaan antra kedua2 golongan nie..klau JANDA,ialah seseorg wanita yg telah diceraikn oleh suaminya...tetpi klau BALU pula,ialah seseorg wanita yg telah kehilangan suami atau dlm kata mudahnya,seseorg yg suaminya telah meninggal dunia dan trpksa hidup scra bersendrian utk meneruskn hdup di samping harus menyara anak2....klau ank2 da bsar sume,xperla jgk..at least ringan skit bebanan yg hrus ditanggung tp klau anak msh kcik,berderet2 lak tue..ishh,bayangkan la mcmna seseorg wanita itu hrus mncari sesuap nasi utk mnanggung anak2nya scra bersendrian..mmg tanggungjawab da mnjdi sgt2 bsar..dlm erti kata lain,seseorg ibu tnggal itu scra rasminya sdah bergelar ketua keluarga..
persoalannya ialah,adakah seseorg itu akn dianggap hina sekiranya bergelar ibu tunggal?truk sgt ke jd ibu tnggal nie??dlm kehidupn masyarakat kita yg sophistikated,mmg sy xnafikan fkiran masyarakat kita msih x 'out of the box'...fkiran msih kolot n xtentu hala..adakah seseorg wanita itu akn mati klau hidup tnpa LELAKI??sy mngaku,slpas kematian arwah ayah sy,automatik mak sy da bergelar ibu tnggal..alhamdulillah,wlaupn arwah ayh sy da lama meninggalkn kami sekeluarga,mak sy msih mmpu mnjga n mnyara hdup kami wlaupn tnpa LELAKI!mak sy bekerja dlm bidang profesional n mak sy sama sekali berpendapat bhwa dia tidak lg memerlukn mne2 lelaki lain dlm hdupnya kecuali arwah ayh sy...*bukti cinta sejati..hehe*..syukurla,kehidupn kami mmg amat2 bhgia n senang...kami ckup makan pkai sume..xder msalah la..mak sy slalu ckp,don't ruin yourself bcoz of man..bkn bermaksud skiranya tnpa lelaki,kita tidak mmpu utk hdup bersendirian..ingat la,wlau siapa pn kita ini sbnrnya,kita ada willpower msing2..Tuhan mmberi kekuatan kt kita wlaupn kita sntiasa digelar insan yg lemah..pedulikan la apa org lain nk kata,bkn kita mnyusahkn hdup diorg pon..sy msih remaja n mak sy la idola sy dlm kehidupn sy...mak sy la yg mmberi smangat n kekuatn pd sy wlaupn sy n adik2 sudah tiada ayah..wlaupn mak sy seorg ibu tunggal,tp mak sy still leh bhgia n gembira dgn dirinya skrg..LELAKI LAIN tidak pernah wujud dlm kamus hidupnya.. so,the conclusion is,wlaupn seseorg itu bergelar ibu tnggal,bkn bermaksud keluarga anda akn mnjdi porak peranda sekiranya tnpa LELAKI!!kaum wnita diluar sana pon msih boleh utk berdiri sendri tnpa perlu mngharapkn LELAKI...ibu tnggal still mmpu utk melahirkn sebuah keluarga yg bhgia di samping mndidik anak2 mnjdi org yg berguna n berjya..tiada sbb utk anda mngatakn yg anda tidak mmpu utk melakuknnya..percyalah kpd kemmpuan dri sndri...maka itu,sy nk bgtau kpd sume wnita yg bergelar IBU TUNGGAL,terimalah seadanya kenyataan ttg diri anda n berbanggalah kerana anda merupakn IBU TUNGGAL YG BERJYA!
dah cukup matang ker??
haishh...tadi bila sy baca suratkhbar,ade 1 artikel berkaitan seorg pelajar pintar bwah umur yg berkahwin...baru jea umur 16..SPM pon xlepas lg dik oi...hurm,bler bce berkaitan hal cmni,rase terkilan kat hati nie pon ader...knp la nk khwin mse muda2 lg nie?bkn ke pelajaran yg harus diutamakn dlu?berkahwin bkn masanya buat kita yg masih muda lg nieh...knp harus musnahkan kehidupn remaja semata2 mahu berkhwin pd awal usia?bkn sy mahu katakn yg brkhwin itu tidak elok tp kena la ikut keadaan n faktor umur...x jeles ke nnti klau tgk org lain yg sebaya sudah brjya hngga ke mnara gading,msuk U n genggam ijazah,dpt kerja bgus2 sdangkan kita lak msih muda lg tp da sbuk n kna jga anak yg berderet2...yg lg menghairankn,suami dier lak bknnye ade kerja ttap pon..haishh,nk komen byk2 pon xleh..kang kna saman lak nnti...pelik2...orang lain pon bercinta gak tp at least fkir gak ttng masa depan..bkn ke klau kita utamakn pelajarn dhlu brulah kita akn hidup snang di kemudian hari..masa tu lar bler nk khwin pon hati rse snang coz kewangan da stabil..ni mse dpn pon blum tntu trjamin da mnggatal nk khwin..ooppss...*terlepas ckp*..hehehe...
so,buat korang2 sume yg sebaya ngn sy,ni nk bg nasihat skit nieh...nk brcinta-cintun tue sukati korang la...tp kna lah brpada2 sntiasa..mmg la brkhwin awl tu leh elakkn maksiat tp korang knalah fkir mse dpn gak..jgn la dok asyk nk tnduk kpd nafsu smata2...jgn ingt skrg nie snang nk hidp bler xde education..ni lar yg mak sy slalu pesan tau..bler da brjya,nnti khdupn kita pon bhgia gak..mmg kasih syg tue pntng tp klau ikut zaman kita nie,duit pon pntingggg.....hehehe..so snang citer..korang pepndai la tentukn masa dpn korang sndri..klau nk khwin pon,tunggu la smpai diri tue da btul2 stabil dlu..means,korang knalah pndai bab2 rmhtngga nie...jgn main tngkap muat jea..hehe...so,tepuk dada,tnyer la selera korang...apsal nk kna tnyer sy lak?hehe..:p
so,buat korang2 sume yg sebaya ngn sy,ni nk bg nasihat skit nieh...nk brcinta-cintun tue sukati korang la...tp kna lah brpada2 sntiasa..mmg la brkhwin awl tu leh elakkn maksiat tp korang knalah fkir mse dpn gak..jgn la dok asyk nk tnduk kpd nafsu smata2...jgn ingt skrg nie snang nk hidp bler xde education..ni lar yg mak sy slalu pesan tau..bler da brjya,nnti khdupn kita pon bhgia gak..mmg kasih syg tue pntng tp klau ikut zaman kita nie,duit pon pntingggg.....hehehe..so snang citer..korang pepndai la tentukn masa dpn korang sndri..klau nk khwin pon,tunggu la smpai diri tue da btul2 stabil dlu..means,korang knalah pndai bab2 rmhtngga nie...jgn main tngkap muat jea..hehe...so,tepuk dada,tnyer la selera korang...apsal nk kna tnyer sy lak?hehe..:p
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